Best Romantic Proposals
When it comes to romantic proposals, I'll let a very special guest writer (my husband, Andrew) tell you all about the best options available to you. He's obviously been a very successful "proposer" as he got me to say yes to him… but we'll save that story for another day! For now, here's Andrew: Okay, so you’ve thought it over a million times, and you’ve decided that this is truly the person you want to propose to. The next step is just where and how you’ll do it. Speaking from personal experience, what makes a great proposal is the thought that goes into it. Think about proposing as a home-made gift; it is much more meaningful if a lot of thought, and attention to detail has gone into it. It terms of where to propose, think of a location that has special meaning for both of you. For example: - At a beach where you like to hang out together (lake or ocean is good)
- On top of a mountain (gently falling snow = very romantic)
- On a boat (the ocean has a very romantic vibe, unless one of you is prone to motion sickness)
- In front of a campfire while camping together
- Anywhere while on a romantic vacation together (I successfully proposed in the Caribbean)
- Places where you had “your first ...” work well (eg. first kiss)
- Natural settings like a farm or a meadow are way better than a city location
- Generally speaking, anywhere with an amazing view (think Grand Canyon or a helicopter)
- Choose a place where you can take you time, savor the moment, and make it special
- Do NOT propose in a stadium! You’ll just end up on the Jumbotron, and no one needs that kind of pressure!
- Avoid proposing at a family dinner or full restaurant, as this can be super awkward if you don’t get a “yes”. Their decision may also be clouded by wanting to keep others happy.
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Romantic Proposals
In terms of how to propose, there are also several options. Again, the idea is to make it as special as possible to show that person how much you care for them. Some ideas:- Just the two of you enjoying a candlelight dinner
- An elaborately-planned scene, where several people help set it up, then hide in the distance (think rose petals and candles)
- Something very spontaneous, and a big surprise, or a “scavenger hunt” theme, where they know something is coming
- You may consider asking their parents’ permission (very traditional, but shows HUGE respect and honor to them)
- Getting down on one knee is still very cool, even these days!
- You could write out what you want to say, or just say as it comes to you
- Write the question out on something - the sand, a cake, even on them!
- Whatever you do, remember, when you propose, it’s all about the eye contact
I wish you all the best with your romantic proposals… here's to a big "YES" in response to your question!By the way, before you get married, a few things you really need to consider are pre marriage counseling, questions to ask before marriage, and marriage compatibility. Only get engaged if you are really sure this is the person you want to be with forever, and will be a good match for you. If not, it could be a pretty dodgy marriage, even though you started it with the most romantic proposals!
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